Easy-peasy In the mood for Shove pointers. My weekly sex tips for girls* (*girls who are holding on to mid-life by a thread). A dating odyssey for Young Olds, (people with readers).
All good advice here IMO - especially the bit about eating light and I’d add not drinking too much! Also I would advise to wear clothes that are relatively easy to remove. Tight jeans that leave marks on your belly & require a lot of wriggling to remove (which can be fun!) might make you self conscious - better to wear something like a wrap dress or looser pants IMO. Or change into lounge wear when you get home and go from there. Most of all, enjoy the discovery of feeling something new. The last time I slept with someone new, who in fairness I’d slept with ~30 years ago, my body wasn’t quite ready and I felt mortified, which made me cry. The fact that he held me and let it be OK grew the trust a thousand percent and we both went on to blissful experiences. And three years later… still yes yes yes.
All good advice here IMO - especially the bit about eating light and I’d add not drinking too much! Also I would advise to wear clothes that are relatively easy to remove. Tight jeans that leave marks on your belly & require a lot of wriggling to remove (which can be fun!) might make you self conscious - better to wear something like a wrap dress or looser pants IMO. Or change into lounge wear when you get home and go from there. Most of all, enjoy the discovery of feeling something new. The last time I slept with someone new, who in fairness I’d slept with ~30 years ago, my body wasn’t quite ready and I felt mortified, which made me cry. The fact that he held me and let it be OK grew the trust a thousand percent and we both went on to blissful experiences. And three years later… still yes yes yes.
Big on the wrap dresses! Have a DVF one that has been employed more than once for this!