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I love texting for the excitement of knowing you're on someone's mind and vice versa, without too much effort. That smile you feel in your heart and the dopamine kicka in. Talking is even better, and face to face is key. It's where all the chemistry and spark and pheromones come into play. It's how you know it's real. Phone "friends" could be fun but it falls short, kinda like what I imagine blue balls feels like!

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Love texting but also like giving and receiving audio messages!

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I forgot about audio messages! And I know you love it so I'll include it in my wrap up!

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May 29·edited May 29

Texting is fine and fun and flirty and sexy. And you can find out a lot about their sense of humor which is a huge turn on for me. But I must talk to them. Talking is the real key to knowing if a connection will work. If you can't talk to them endlessly about everything, well, it's just not gonna work.

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Ideally, face-to-face my preference. But get the value and convenience of text. Still big on phone calls. I think pen-to-paper is also sadly underused. Who doesn’t relish a steamy love letter, a salacious card or some provocative poetry left somewhere unexpected. The written word looms large in my mind.

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I LOVE that you added in love letters or cards or written word in general! That always does it for me too!

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