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This is a great read and touches on what many women feel. I went from the worst marriage to the best but the process was not easy. I love you Abbe.

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I loved reading this and thinking about the issue you present here. Your inimitable writing style is always such a pleasure.

I just have such a hard line around honesty over the past decade or so, which is probably a factor in what destroyed my marriage. As someone who's currently and relatively happily "poly-dating" at the moment, I do get the struggle for those who are still in long term marriages/partnerships and are not sure how/if to rock that boat.

Being single can be great, and there can also be isolation that comes with that, so I find that there are moments where I'm juggling the joy of just myself, along with the occasional blues of that as well.

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