Good but not great, so now what? My ongoing sex tips for girls* (*girls who are holding on to mid-life by a thread). A dating odyssey for Young Olds, AKA, people with readers.
I feel like questions 1 and 8 are qualitatively different from the rest, and also the most important, because they represent feeling states and the body doesn’t lie. A relationship can seem to tick all the boxes, but if you’d feel relief if it were over, or if your guy tells you to go, that’s your answer, no matter what the other responses say.
I think you’re correct! The question about your gut is such a simple one, but our intuition rarely lies to us, don’t you find? I was interested in the way that people talked about “valued” when a few of the quiz takers offered more description on this.
I feel like questions 1 and 8 are qualitatively different from the rest, and also the most important, because they represent feeling states and the body doesn’t lie. A relationship can seem to tick all the boxes, but if you’d feel relief if it were over, or if your guy tells you to go, that’s your answer, no matter what the other responses say.
I think you’re correct! The question about your gut is such a simple one, but our intuition rarely lies to us, don’t you find? I was interested in the way that people talked about “valued” when a few of the quiz takers offered more description on this.
I feel so lucky. Other than having the messiest partner, he is my balance, my love, my heart. I went from the worst marriage ever to the best.