How about we NOT talk about it? My ongoing sex tips for girls* (*girls who are holding on to mid-life by a thread). A modern dating odyssey for Young Olds, AKA, people with readers.
I SO Needed to hear this right now. I feel seen. I’m in the same boat. Boyfriend of a year told me a week or so ago that he’s not feeling passionate currently. I pushed the questions despite him telling me he did not want to get into the reasons why just yet, got anxious, and overdid the communication. I owned it the next day and have continued to feel anxious. Despite knowing I have no control over HIS doubts. And just last night I stopped the urge to ask him to share how he’s feeling. He got all passionate with me in bed. And now I’m confused. And decided I just need to take the time, allow him the space, and self
Regulate. For the record I’m self
Regulating alone up in my attic bedroom while my 23 year old daughter and boyfriend (who has virtually moved in with us )are downstairs fawning over each other on the couch, which just serves to make me more edgy. Seems it may be time to focus on my boundaries.
I SO Needed to hear this right now. I feel seen. I’m in the same boat. Boyfriend of a year told me a week or so ago that he’s not feeling passionate currently. I pushed the questions despite him telling me he did not want to get into the reasons why just yet, got anxious, and overdid the communication. I owned it the next day and have continued to feel anxious. Despite knowing I have no control over HIS doubts. And just last night I stopped the urge to ask him to share how he’s feeling. He got all passionate with me in bed. And now I’m confused. And decided I just need to take the time, allow him the space, and self
Regulate. For the record I’m self
Regulating alone up in my attic bedroom while my 23 year old daughter and boyfriend (who has virtually moved in with us )are downstairs fawning over each other on the couch, which just serves to make me more edgy. Seems it may be time to focus on my boundaries.
Oh Sweet Reader, I’m sending you so much love and wishes for peace and tenderness for yourself while you’re in this stickiness. It’s hard!
I adore you
I adore YOU!
This was a very timely and informative post ,Abbe ..thank you ! 😘