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I was once gifted a coffee mug in college that read, "If you can't eat it, smoke it, or fuck it, you might as well throw it away." Amen. Welcome to my dating + sex odyssey for Young Olds, AKA, people with readers. Lie back and get comfortable, Darlings...


Writer, art nerd, drummer, lipstick wearer, skinnydipper, sybarite, hopeless romantic, Lady Boss Publicist. Says "Yay!" a lot. Passionate do-gooder. Charming (always). Filthy (sometimes).